What a Day
Nov. 15th, 2006 01:35 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
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dbubley is coming home today!!!Two of my co-workers, T & D, came over after working all day and we painted and cleaned until 11 pm last night. And D put up a grab bar for
dbubley near her new bed. I think the bar will really help her getting in, out and moving about on it. T painted and cleaned and cleaned and cleaned. I still have some things to do, but if they don't get done before she comes home, at least her place is back to a usable status. After T & D left, I started to cry. These are the co-workers/family I am leaving behind for my new job. My leaving is really affecting them - both will pick up parts of my job. And they don't get paid any more or get extra hours. That sucks. Now this has happened to me many, many times over the years. At one point there was a rash of people leaving (a few moved on, a few retired and one died), and each time I picked up a couple of their tasks. And this last year when my boss of 20 years retired, I almost got overloaded.
I signed the acceptance letter today. And my new boss invited me to the department's Thanksgiving Potluck this Thursday, even though I don't start until Dec. 4. There's no guarantee this job won't have the same piling on issues, but at least I'm not expected to take work home or come in on weekends.
But I still feel like such a shit to leave my friends behind. And watching them work so hard for me just made me feel even more so.
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*HUGS!*
Date: 2006-11-15 01:57 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-11-15 09:11 pm (UTC)that T is a hard worker, isn't she?
and no matter what you do to maintain the relationship, it won't be the same, and warrants the grief you are feeling. let it fill you and wash through you, and it will bring up other significant losses (like the big M), and that can be bittersweet too. going to the T-giving party at the new place is great, you'll get to see how well the group does parties, which is a great indicator of how well a group works together.
ain't life messy?!